The first of May is an important day for the senior students
of Refi. They have a farewell ceremony before their final exams to say goodbye to the school, their fellow
students and their teachers. In Hungarian it’s called ballagás (closest word in
English is graduation). The school was decorated with beautiful flowers. They
were laid down on a line in the ground, on the floors and on the stairwells at
school. The graduating classes had their classrooms decorated and these were
decorated by fellow students.
The day before the ceremony was the senior students last day
of school. There is a tradition called the ‘Farewell Bell’ where the students
ring the school bell and then they receive a ceramic bell from the headmaster
with the school name and the year they graduated. There were a total of 86 students graduating
and some students were louder at ringing the bell than others!
That week I received bottles of wine from the two graduating
classes. On one of the bottles I also was given a leather pencil case with my
initials on it, which I’m so pleased about. One wine was Hungary's famous Tokaj wine (sweet white) and another was white wine which was homemade in Tolcsva, a small village not so far from Sárospatak. I felt pleased but sad because I knew I would
miss the students and the school would be quiet without them.
The farewell ceremony started with the students and their
form teachers walking down the school stairs, out of the school, the school
yard and then out of the gate to the church. I walked with some colleagues to
church and we sat upstairs. The ceremony lasted about two hours, but I think
most people started to get restless. There was a farewell speech by one of the
school’s top students and another student gave a speech to his graduating
classmates. Prizes were also awarded to three students who had excelled in
school and in competitions. Eventually the ceremony ended and it continued with
a procession throughout the main streets of Sárospatak and into the school
garden. My friend and I went for an ice cream. By the time we came back the
students were returning to the school where they would have photos taken by
their families. All of the students said hello, smiled or waved at me – it was
very sweet.
This is a tradition that happens every year in Hungary and
in my opinion it is a lovely tradition. It is a good way to say goodbye to your
school, plus there are a lot of beautiful flowers!
Below are some photos I managed to get from the day. You can check out the professional photographs on this Facebook link: https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.681239865336139.1073741937.207643612695769&type=3